You Deserve Better

To whom it may concern a word for anyone who may be going through this or maybe you can pass it on to someone you know is experiencing this in their life.

Treat yourself good. Don't be involved in a relationship with somebody who can't be faithful to you. Don't be someone side dish waiting for them to come to you when they are finish seeing another. You deserve so much better. Your deserve more than being on the corner of someone's plate. It's not worth waiting in the wings to be number one. If the person is cheating on the other to be with you they have already proven to be untrustworthy and have no integrity. Therefore no real good lasting relationship could come from it. Because relationships are built on trust. Don't waist your moments or your body on someone who doesn't  think you deserve to be the main course in their life. Don't waist your thoughts or your finances on someone who doesn't realize that you and God are everything they need. Love  yourself and treat yourself good. Because your worth it.

Letting Go Of Yesterday

Thinking about letting go.

Their was a song in the 70's called "It's So Hard  to say Goodbye to Yesterday".  The song writer was saying he didn't want to let go of the good times he had in the past. Sometimes your life changes and God opens new doors for you. It's hard to let go of things, places and most of all good people. We get accustomed and comfortable with going to the same place and being with the same people. Especially when things are going good. We don't want to leave what we have we want to hold on. But the truth is if we don't say goodbye to yesterday we will not be able to fully walk in and experience all the wonderful things God has for us in our tomorrow. If we don't let go we will not grow and we will miss out on God's purpose for our lives including the new  people and places.  No matter how good yesterday may have been for us. Tomorrow has so much more for us to do and receive in God's kingdom. Isaiah 43:19 says Behold I am doing a new  thing. Do not consider the things of old. Yesterday was good but tomorrow I am looking forward to God doing something greater in me and through me. What about you?

A woman is not A Try on or Test Drive Object

If a man isn't ready to wait to have sex with  his lady until they get married because he says that he has to see if she is sexually compatible with him first. If he believes the popular phrase no one buys shoes until they tried them on or no one buys a car unless he test drives it so he has to try her out first. Then he doesn't even know all that a women has to offer him besides sex. Because a woman a wife is much more than a sexually compatible mate. She is as God define in the book of Genesis your suitable compatible help mate. She will bring in addition to the sex he desire, her love,  her faith in God, her character, her friendship, her personality, wisdom, her encouragement, comfort, her support, knowledge, commitment, strength, joy and peace and the list goes on. A real woman and wife will be their in the storm with her man and will go to God on their behalf. Both  of their faith in God and prayers will help get them through it. If man is just looking for a sexually compatible mate and allowing this to be the premise of him finding a wife he just might find a woman  whose character is shallow who hangs out in the street, sleeps around, spends up all the money on crazy things, doesn't want to take care of the home. He might find she can satisfy his sexual needs but she has no faith in God and has no depth of character and when the storm comes she can't handle it and she is out the door. 

Oh yes their is so much more women and a wife has to offer than being just a sexual compatible mate. 

Proverbs 18: 22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing