Being Committed in marriage

Marriage is about commitment not having goosebumps every time you see each other. Please don't misunderstand me their is nothing wrong with having those feelings or emotions but it has to be more than that in order to stay together. You have to be committed when you don't feel like it when that person is getting on your nerves or when they do something you don't like, because they will.  You have to be willing (be committed) to  do what is right toward each other even when you don't feel like it. Because Love is not just a whole bunch of feelings. It's an action that you decide to do toward someone with or without feelings involved. The Bible says to put on love in Colossians 3:14. So you have to on purpose decide to treat someone with love regardless of how you feel. So sometimes you have to say to yourself I may not feel like it but I am going to on purpose treat my spouse with love today. Then send them some ❤️❤️❤️❤️